Since there was just recently a post where someone asked why guys are married to woman of one type but hook up with Road Girls from another type; I just wanted to give you a little answer on that because I am sure that not only that person wonders why.
The main thing is that there is a big difference between a Road Girl /Groupie and their spouse/girlfriend.
The one is for adventures on tour and to be nasty naughty and the other is for spending the life with. For the spouse not only looks are important to them, as you may know, but also the personality. Also how the couple works together is important for them.
As for the Groupies, the main things are their looks and charisma. You can look totally different than what type the person usually dates but still be able to hook up with them.
So don’t loose hope and don’t compare yourself to the girls they are married to/in a relationship with.
A as in Appearance.
The most important thing is that you feel comfortable in what you are wearing and don’t dress up extremely just because you would like to join them in the bus or backstage.
Also very important is to be confident but still yourself. Appear as a woman and not think that you are something like a shrinking violet. Every girl is beautiful in her own way and if you manage to show that in your appearance, you made one big step towards the bus.
B as in Backstage.
To get backstage can be really easy if you have the know-how. Be there as early as you can to check out the surroundings and maybe meet some of the crew or even the band before the show. They tend to walk around much between soundcheck and the main show. If you go to see a band where you know the roadies, the best you can do is get to talk with them. Most of the time they are the most rocking people on the planet. You get backstage easily if you befriend them or you might as well get told by them, where the after show party is if there is one.
C as in Clothing.
Please be assured by all the Road Girls out there that you do not have to dress with a big cleavage and a tight and short skirt. You can easily get noticed with jeans and a normal shirt. A mini skirt easily appears to be slutty but shorts are totally alright. We highly advise you against wearing heels because if they are too high (+2 inch/5 cm) you risk to get badly injured in the crowd or injure others for that matter.
D as in Decency.
As much as you may love the band, treat them like normal people. Be decent about them because most of them can’t stand it at all if you praise and kiss the ground they walk on. When you follow this guideline, they will treat you like a normal person as well and not as an obsessive fan that can’t talk about anything else but them.
E as in Emotions.
This is a part that is very important. When you are going to get to your goal, you have to prepare yourself and shut your feelings and emotions down. It would most likely just end in a broken heart if you don’t build up a wall around yourself. If you can’t do this, we do not recommend you to try and be a Road Girl. It is no place for these feelings because sex is just sex in this case.
F as in Flirting.
Flirting is good as long as you don’t over-exaggerate things. Maybe do the first step so they know you’re interested because they have many girls to follow them so you most likely must be the one to start things. If they jump on the train, everything can happen.
G as in Gratefulness
Basically be grateful for any experience. May it be sexual or not. Don’t be too eager about getting into their pants because this shouldn’t be your first priority. Be happy to have the chance to be at the show and to meet them. If it doesn’t work out to have a drink with them or more, don’t let this ruin your night.
H as in Hammered.
Our beloved alcohol has the nice side effect to loosen your tongue and you have more courage the more you drunk but remember, lovelies, do not overplay with it. If you get hammered in front of your favorite band it can easily happen that you simply embarrass yourself and this looks never good if you would like to plan further actions.
I as in Intimacies.
If you manage to have some sexy time with the one you wish to, we are sure you will have a good time. Nonetheless you shouldn’t forget that you should just get intimate with a person if you really want it and not just because you have the chance to or because that person is someone big.
J as in Jealousy.
Being one fan when there are hundreds and thousands at the show also means that there are other women at the same date you are. Don’t let jealousy come up because they talk to one girl more than to you. Make it happen that you are always somewhat visible and that you catch their attention instead of having a bitch fit through being all jealous. This is never a good thing for any man and surely not for guys who are (mostly) taken or don’t want to have more than a hot and wild night. You don’t own them nor you have the right to be like this. Always remember that.
K as in Karma.
Karma can be a total bitch, we all know that lovelies, but karma can be nice if you are. We two believe in doing the right thing so that karma treats you well and all I can say is that it nearly always worked out in our cases. How you would like to put it into the Road Girl style is up to you but keep in mind that usually nothing good happens if you treat people like shit. Most of the time karma strikes then when you don’t expect it to/at the worst times possible and you might lose in the big game.
L as in Legally.
What we mean by that is simple that if you are under 16 and even under 18, we do not recommend in trying to be a Road Girl. It might be your wish but you are firstly not really able to shut yourself down emotionally in that age and especially you’re not even legal for the people you want to get with.
N as in Nudes.
Surely, photos of the wonderful night with a sexy man are really tempting but be careful and cautious! We would suggest you, not to let him have/take these because you have no idea who he will show them to nor if he would post them anywhere. Even if isanyoneup.com is down, there are other ways for shoutouts. You should also only agree in these things if you really are comfortable with it and keep them to yourself because privacy is the essential thing in being a Road Girl.
P as in Protection.
There is nothing else to add other than: Use it. You don’t know who you are getting intimate with and everyone can say that they are healthy when they don’t even really know themselves.
R as in Respect
Treat the people you meet with respect. If you are polite they will be, too. When you feel uncomfortable towards anything they want, tell them right away and don’t do it just because they are (rock)stars.
T as in Touring.
With musicians being what they are, they like to play more shows in the countries they go to. If you have the ability and financial support, it’s always the best to go to more than one show. To do this will help you being recognized and known as a passionate fan. This will get you one step ahead in getting to know the people better and raises your chances as well.
V as in Virginity
To lose your virginity truly is a big thing for the most of you and this is why you really should be sure about what you do. If you are a virgin and want one of these guys to take it away from you, be assured that they have plenty of experience and they might not always take care of begin all sensitive even if they know you never done it before. It’s tempting for many men to have a virgin in bed but first of all, the girl herself should be sure about her decision and what comes with it.
This will be continued asap.
xx, #4 & #7
In additional help: groupieopinions
to our new blog of the groupie nation. Just as several sites before, we’re here for all your little secret or not so secret groupie stories. Share your experience, knowledge and/or opinions with us and all our followers.
The two of us simply thought that, since the other sites, similar to ours, have stopped posting because of being heavily insulted and harassed, it’s time to get this thing rolling again. We all know that some bands and their members are no saints or angels at all. There’s is no need to hide it. Whoever wants to look away and refuse to believe the truth, well, that’s your choice and you can happily skip our posts/thoughts/messages and our blog in general and keep on with what you’re doing. That’s perfectly fine. Don’t waste your time with trying to annoy us or insult us because you disagree with what’s said on here or with the stories that some people were brave enough to share with us/everybody. There’s no need to be ashamed of things like that, though we completely understand if some want to stay anonymous. The decision is all yours.
So don’t be shy. Go to our ask box and send us your stories or submit them.
We don’t judge anybody for the things they’ve done and so should nobody else. If we see any insulting commentary and/or posts, be sure to get blocked. We don’t need your unnecessary words if you have nothing good to say.
As already stated, this blog belongs to two people. My partner in crime will identify herself with #4, while I chose to be #7. (Btw. There’s no big meaning behind these numbers except for that they’re our lucky ones. No need to interpret anything into them. People tend to put too much thought into nicknames which is why we chose numbers now. Easy as that)
We await your stories.